That's how I feel.
As some of u may know, I'm going through a rough patch now. Feeling really down and lousy about everything. I mean, first, I get blown off by a guy I thought liked me for some biatch, and I had to endure them dirty dancing the entire night. Totally sickening.
Then I'm piled on with more fucking work from my asshole project group mates, who, by the way, are absolutely rude. I mean, I'm more than happy to do more than my fair share. I really don't mind helping. But don't say that my work is plain and has no designs. There's only so much u can do with a fucking dying computer. AND BLOODY HELL SAY THANK YOU!
GOD! Singaporeans here are damn... ARGH!!! I mean, can't u even say a simple "Thanks!"? It's not that I want all the bloody credit, but at least freakin' acknowledge my effort! Fucking hell just snatch my work from me and then criticise like hell. Fuckwit.
To make things all worse, it's that bloody time of month! I think I'm suffering from PMS or some other form of depression. Bloody annoying. This is one of the times that I curse God for making me a female. Plus I've missed last month, so the cramps come in full-force this time. (I know, too much information. But fuck it. I'm pissed off. Writing let's me release some steam. Deal with it.)
But no, that's not all! The cherry right at the top is that my mother fucking bought my brother a brand new Apple Macbook!!!
That's right! How completely biased is that?! So fucking unfair!!!
I don't blame my brother entirely. It's not exactly his fault for wanting a Macbook. I mean, who doesn't want it? It's sleek, it's stylish, it's what every teenager wants.
But the thing that makes it really sting is that my mom bought this Macbook for my brother, EVEN THOUGH HE ALREADY HAS A PERFECTLY FUNCTIONING COMPUTER THAT SHE BOUGHT FOR HIM JUST HALF A YEAR BACK!!!
It's not the fact that it's a Macbook. It's not the fact that my brother managed to weasel it out of her.
It's the fact that here I am with a bloody lousy dying computer (that was fucking passed down from my brother) that has already died and had to be revived after the blue screen of death appeared and my brother FUCKING GETS A BRAND NEW COMPUTER, A MACBOOK NO LESS!!!!!
My mom is goddamn biased.
And guess what? I can't even complain about the total unfairness of this situation. Because I know exactly how the argument will end.
Me: How could u buy a brand new Macbook for Kelvin when he has a bloody good one already that u just bought for him 6 months ago?!
My mother: Don't u dare complain, ok! I spend so much on ur studies and ur air tickets for flying back and forth and u still dare to talk back?!
That's not the bloody point.
It's so damn unfair. My brother gets away with things like this always. It's not his fault, because the ultimate decision is my mom's.
But see, he's doing a course he loves, Media and Management or whatever. His diploma will let him be able to go into broadcasting, journalism, management, advertising and so on. Basically he's got a very wide choice.
But me? I'm doing a course I don't even like that much. Finance, Accounting and Management. I can't stand accounting, so I'm not even considering becoming an accountant or auditor in the future. I just can't see myself sitting chained to a desk, working 9 to 5 every goddamn day doing a routine job of crunching figures. I know myself. I get bored easily. I need a job that is exciting and fun. So I wanna do something along the creative line, like advertising or marketing. But with my degree, I'm pretty much stuck. Look at my brother. He can go both ways, whichever he so chooses to do. But me, I'm doing something I'm not even very happy doing just to make someone happy.
My ultimate sacrifice. My own happiness.
My dad says my degree will bring me to good places. I'll be able to find a good job and earn lots of money. But what's the point if I have to work ungodly hours daily? What's the point of having to work 18 hours a day, everyday, and not have the time to spend the gazillion bucks I make?
And there's no absolute guarantee that I'll even be able to find a well-paying job with my degree either. Everything's so uncertain. Here I am in my first year, and I already find myself struggling. And first year's not even counted! I've never done Business Law ever before in my life, and I can't for the life of me understand how that's gonna help me anyway if I wanna go into something like advertising or marketing.
Sigh. This sucks.
I feel so alone here. I have no one close to confide in. Everyone here is so bitchy that I have to be careful what I tell people, cos I never know when they're gonna take that and talk about me behind my back. At least back home I know that I can just reach for the phone and have at least 3 people who I can talk to and release all this.
But for now, all I can do is cry alone in my room.
The worse thing is that I can't cry. So it just sort of builds up inside. And I have completely no interest as to what my friends talk about, so I'm kinda out of the loop. I just sorta go on auto-pilot mode, and go through a routine; lecture, tutorial, eat, lecture again, project work, eat.
This could all just be the hormones talking. For all I know, tomorrow I could be jumping off the walls with glee. Incredibly doubtful that will happen, but I could.